In this developing country, we are continuously taking our step ahead to improve education and standard of living but somehow our system failed to make people open minded to discuss the sex and virginity. Sex before marriage is still considered as the biggest sin for Indian women, however, our education system has also untouched this subject.
A man has shared his horrible story on Quora that how a Taboo around Sex affected her wife’s mind that she even can’t bear the touch of his Husband and ended up the marriage with the sigining on the paper of Divorce.
Our family arranged our match when I was 27 and she was 25. She seemed like a beautiful, educated and well-spoken woman. Before our families made the match official, all I asked her was if she wants to get married out of free will (as opposed to family pressure) and if there is someone else she wants to be with.
We got engaged and had a 4 month courtship period. We chatted and went on dates. I have female friends and I know how confusing this time can get for girls. I wanted to respect her space and didn’t make a move to get physically intimate. She said she was a virgin. I, too, was a virgin so I thought she might be feeling shy talking about the details.
Cut to our first night and we were at my parent’s home. I talked, showered her with compliments gifts and sang for her. After making the atmosphere extremely romantic, I leaned in for a kiss. To my horror, she jumped back. I was horrified that I had scared her. She said she didn’t feel comfortable, so I let it be.
A week later, we kissed. Another 2 weeks later, she was *letting* me take off her clothes. I tried to stimulate her by caressing her breasts, back, neck in a lot of different ways but she never seemed to be aroused. In fact one day, to my horror, she ran into the bathroom and I could hear her sobbing. I felt guilty.
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